The Best Love Tips

Dating and relationships are complicated things. Meeting and staying with the right person requires dedication, so knowing the best tips and strategies will greatly increase the chances of finding a happy, healthy partnership.

1. First Date Precaution

   • The first date is critical when determining a partner's suitability. According to Molly Triffin of "Cosmopolitan," a major problem that can arise on a first date is high expectation. She explains that going into a first date in hopes of seeing the person again has the potential for disappointment. Instead, the best strategy is to see the night as a time to enjoy yourself. Triffin's suggestion is to "rein in your expectations or you won't have fun."

   First Date Behavior

   • Triffin has some ideas on how to make the best of a first date. One piece of advice is to talk to the person as you would a good friend. Divulging small weaknesses also helps increase comfort and make you seem more human. Another good idea is to be wild and "flaunt your fearless personality" and opt for "a little rule breaking."

   First Date Impressions

   • Triffin writes that there are many ways to impress a first date. One simple thing is to avoid ordering certain foods, such as spaghetti with sauce, chicken wings, chili or foods labeled as low in fat. There is a more subtle technique called "mirroring." It involves imitating the other person's body language. For example, leaning in when she does or picking up your drink shortly after her. It implies synchronization, strengthening the connection.

   Beyond the First Date

   • If all goes well, a few dates could turn into a lasting relationship. There are four key areas, according to Dr. Jeanne Segal and her colleagues. First, it is important to be involved. In other words, participate with each other. Second, couples must learn to resolve conflict without being afraid of it. Third, make sure to have other activities and friends. Finally, it is important to openly and honestly communicate.
     
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