What is a healthy relationship? That depends on what each party is looking for. Do you want a full blown love, passionate,emotional and life changing relationship or just want someone to chat with. You are the only one that can make it happen. Don’t look for other people to steer you into relationships. Take a look into their relationships. Is that what you want? Chances are that is a no answer.
First sit down and decide what kind of a relationship you want. Surfing the internet is a good way to find ideas and information on all aspects of relationships. Set out and make a wants' and needs list. Everyone should do that, don’t jump in blind or all hell could break loose. Do you want someone to control you? Some like that but usually that is a no answer. Start out slow and find what makes you happy. Don’t be shy! If we knew when we were teens what we know now life would be a lot more fun. [that is what dreams are made of ]. Think about it. The main problem was being shy. Remember who was getting all the dates, If you are still shy get over it fast. Go talk to people you are interested in. Go get what you want in a relationship. Life is to short to hold back! Go to a shopping mall, find someone you want to know and go up to them and compliment them on something. Get the conversation started and see where it go’s, Don’t be afraid of rejection, it happens to everyone. That's just part of life. You don’t get loving relationships unless you go looking for it.
If you are still shy try chatting on the internet. That is fun,exciting,and a good way to practice flirting and find what works best in conversations. Who knows you may find the love of your life. It happens. You just have to go for it. Don’t be the person that is in a rest home that never had love in their life. You sometimes have to make mistakes to learn. Look at your past and learn from your mistakes. Only then can you begin to live life and love to the fullest. Be the person you want to be and find the love you desire.
The main thing is to go for it, the people of the world are waiting for you to join in. Good luck.
Author Rick V