Desire

What are you longing for?

Look inside yourself and find out what it is that you need to make your life more meaningful. Is a loving relationship with someone you can share your life with what you are longing for. When you go to sleep look at what you are dreaming about. Look around and see what other people have that you want. Desire is an emotion that makes us long for more in our lives. Look at your other emotions that are the most meaningful. Love, joy, anticipation, and trust. These give you the best feelings in life. Don't be shut in by your feelings. Live life to the fullest. People that share their emotions with others are the people that everyone wants to be around.

When it comes to Relationships and dating you need to be open and honest with yourself and others. Look forward to meeting new people and sharing your life with others. Wake up every day excited to see what happens. Look for the relationship you desire. Life is to short to let it fly by. Be motivated and discover new things that can help you in enjoying life.

When you enter into a relationship what are you looking for the most? This should be foremost on your mind. Let your feelings and emotions guide you. They are what should be your guiding light. Whether a relationship is right for you or not, is best left to how it makes you feel.

Anticipation for a loving relationship can sometimes lead you down the wrong road. Don't try to make a relationship what you want. It could end up being a bad roller coaster ride. If it's right you will feel it. Emotions do a good job of teaching us what is right and wrong in life.

Dating gives you a way to meet people that are looking for a lot of the things that you are looking for. You could find your soul mate right away or it could take a while. Don't give up or you will never find what you desire. Put yourself out there and see what happens. It can be a lot of fun sharing your life with others and learning what others enjoy in life. You could find things that you never new you could enjoy. The dating world, thanks to the internet is open to you in ways that you never dreamed of. From chat lines to international matchmaking. The world is yours to enjoy. Open up and let your emotions guide you. Find what you desire. Live to the fullest. Give and receive love the world over.

Author Rick V.

Long Distance Love

A lot of long distance relationships work. Why, because both people make it happen. Love makes it happen. Both people know what they want and are willing to make it work. It could be a chatting relationship or a full blown loving and can't wait to be together relationship. If you are willing to look for love around the world, you may find a relationship that you only dreamed about. You are not the only one looking for love. Millions of people the world over want, and are searching for love the same as you are. That is why there are so many dating sites out there. Love is out there, you only need to find it.
Where to look for relationships depends on what you want out of a relationship. Thanks to the internet you can look the world over. Relationships sometimes come when you least expect them. You may end up in a relationship you only dreamed about and when you did not expect it. The key is to “search”. If you don't look you will not receive. Look into places like chat lines, dating sites, relationship sites, matchmaking sites. You may find places people are looking for love you did not expect. Everyone wants love in their life. What you may not know is “millions of people want to meet you”. They want to talk to you thru emails, chat lines, dating sites, and in person.
How far you are willing to go to find love is in your hands. Some people never find it. Usually its because they were not willing to look. Be willing to look everywhere. Be willing to put in the effort. The more that you want to find love, the more willing to find it you should be. Jump in the waters fine. You should be excited about what you could find. Feel good about yourself. Be willing to open up to people and see what others are searching for. Look for others that have found love the world over and how they make it work. Don't confine yourself to only looking for love in your small part of the world. International dating/matchmaking sites have a lot to offer. You would not believe how many people use them. Sites like these have a very good success rate. They are well worth looking into. What do you have to loose? As has been said, “Bewilling and you will recieve”.

Author Rick V.

A Good Sense of Humor

Nobody seems to pickup on this one. When females join a dating service and fill out the profile what is one of the most important things they look for in a partner? “A Good Sense of Humor”. Girls want to have fun. They want a partner that is fun to be with. Someone they love to be around. A partner that they can't wait to be with. If you can fit this mold females will come running to be with you. It's up to you to be that person. If you are a dull dead head you don't have a chance. Nobody likes being around someone that is dull and boring. Is this how you see yourself? Is this how other people see you?
Look at men that seem to always have females around them. What is making this happen? This happens to a lot of men that don't seem to have much going for them.
The answer is “personality”
Men that have a good sense of humor, very open, honest, and able to make people enjoy being around them get all the good stuff. Beautiful people [ inside and out] look for people that make them feel good, important, and beautiful. You don't have to look like a Greek God or have a high IQ to make this happen. Look for sayings that are humorous and use them at the right times in conversations. Look for lite hearted jokes. Try doing things that add humor to different situations. Look for humor in bad situations. This will make females look at you in a whole new way. Hopefully the way you want them to. Helping females in bad situations will make you very attractive and open the door to more females. Females like to talk. They tell their friends about you and what you are like. If you are humorous, easy to talk to, listen to them, and have helped in bad situations your name and personality will get around like you will not believe. More females will want to meet you.
This is how you sell yourself in the Dating world. This is how you find females you want to be with. This should be called male advertising. Try it out on a chat line, there is a lot of them out there. Try it at a shopping mall. Find a female you want to be with and start up a conversation and see where it go's. Compliment her on something and use humor to get her to want to talk to you. Joining dating sites and using this method can open up a new world for you. This is a major factor for females world wide. Be a man with a good sense of humor and “females will find you”.

Author Rick V.

Healthy Relationships

What is a healthy relationship? That depends on what each party is looking for. Do you want a full blown love, passionate,emotional and life changing relationship or just want someone to chat with. You are the only one that can make it happen. Don’t look for other people to steer you into relationships. Take a look into their relationships. Is that what you want? Chances are that is a no answer.
First sit down and decide what kind of a relationship you want. Surfing the internet is a good way to find ideas and information on all aspects of relationships. Set out and make a wants' and needs list. Everyone should do that, don’t jump in blind or all hell could break loose. Do you want someone to control you? Some like that but usually that is a no answer. Start out slow and find what makes you happy. Don’t be shy! If we knew when we were teens what we know now life would be a lot more fun. [that is what dreams are made of ]. Think about it. The main problem was being shy. Remember who was getting all the dates, If you are still shy get over it fast. Go talk to people you are interested in. Go get what you want in a relationship. Life is to short to hold back! Go to a shopping mall, find someone you want to know and go up to them and compliment them on something. Get the conversation started and see where it go’s, Don’t be afraid of rejection, it happens to everyone. That's just part of life. You don’t get loving relationships unless you go looking for it.
If you are still shy try chatting on the internet. That is fun,exciting,and a good way to practice flirting and find what works best in conversations. Who knows you may find the love of your life. It happens. You just have to go for it. Don’t be the person that is in a rest home that never had love in their life. You sometimes have to make mistakes to learn. Look at your past and learn from your mistakes. Only then can you begin to live life and love to the fullest. Be the person you want to be and find the love you desire.
The main thing is to go for it, the people of the world are waiting for you to join in. Good luck.  
Author Rick V

Matchmaking for Singles

The world is full of lonely people wanting someone to share their life and love with. Matchmaking is an art that has been practiced for a very long time. Introducing two people and hoping they will like or even love each other is a game of chance. Friends and family that know the people the most usually have the best chance of making the match.

There is a lot of things to consider when trying to match two people. Physical attraction is probably the top thing to look for. Making a lasting first impression physically is a big boost to starting a relationship. Every one has different physical things that attract them, this is a big consideration when trying to match two people. Of course looks are not everything.

Like minded people with the same life style, interests, and the same views on things that are important to them is a big plus. Also remember that sometimes opposites attract, so keep that in mind.

One excellent way to match singles is to have a event that brings a lot of them together. Then roll the dice and see what happens. It could surprise you what will happen.

Matchmaking in this day and age has gone global. Matchmaking has a whole new meaning. There are international matchmaking services that match a lot of people the world over. There are online dating services that take the information of one person and broadcast it worldwide and see what happens. This has come with some amazing results. The amount of people this has matched is staggering. Some are free to females for an added enticement. There is a lot of ways to match people on the internet. You could convince a person to try a free chat line to start with. This is a good way to open up a shy person and to get them to gain confidence. Getting a shy person to open up and inter act with people of the opposite sex for their own good can be very challenging, especially if they have been hurt in a relationship.

Friends and family sometimes use matchmaking/dating sites for the person that they are trying to help find a match for. This can sometimes work out, but it can sometimes be a disaster . With out the persons permission to do this could cause a lot of anger from that person. Sometimes with their permission it can work out beautifully. Especially for opening up a shy person.

Trying to find love for a friend or relative can be very rewarding.

By Rick V

Do you want an intimate Relationship?

Most of us want love, passion, romance, and physical and emotional intimacy. It sometimes takes a lot of work to build and keep a intimate relationship. Having a relationship that consumes all that you are, that makes you  excited to be alive every day. So willing to share all that you are feeling. That makes you feel safe and secure and wanting more.That brings out all your best feelings. A love that is never ending.

Very few people find it. All is not lost, finding the partner that makes us feel this way is out there.Time is our worse enemy because we all want that partner yesterday. Patience is not one of our good points. We spend a lot of time dating and looking and sometimes it seems like all we find is a dead end. If we don’t allow ourselves time to search for that person, and we find ourselves in a lot of bad relationships.
If we jump into relationships that are  comfortable and  a lot of times do more harm than good. We get angry, depressed and over emotional.That is like falling in a hole. We start feeling like it is not worth searching for. If you are at this point “reread the first paragraph fast”. Don’t go thru life feeling emotionally drained or depressed. Look for people with relationships that are very intimate and look what you can have. Surround yourself with people that love life and that  are always happy and willing to share that happiness.

What about that person finding you.” Did you think about that". You are not the only one looking for a intimate relationship. Sometimes it comes along when we least expect it. Always be open to new and exciting people, and don’t put up walls that will not let the right partner in. The world is full of people that are looking for a  intimate relationship. Put yourself out there to be found. Look into all the ways you can open up yourself up to be found. Things like online dating, joining chat lines, and searching for people with shared interests are fun ways to jump in and get yourself noticed. You can only receive if you are willing to give. Get into the world and give and enjoy the world of receiving for there so many people wanting to give. Thanks to the internet we have a lot more people to connect with.

Live life and be willing to give and receive love  

By Rick V

Love and Passion in Relationships

Lets get real, that is what is most important in all long term relationships. That is what everyone should be looking for in a new relationship. How do we find it, that can be the hard part. It takes a lot of work from both people. Are you willing to put in the effort to accomplish this goal ? You should be if you are reading this. Are you willing to use all you are to achieve it ? Is your love willing to enter into a relationship that will make both of you in love and passionate  forever ? That is the love you should be looking for and longing for for the rest of your life. Not many people find it. Why, because they settle on lesser relationships that they are comfortable with. They try to find love and passion in the relationship and never find it. They wander from one relationship to another without searching for what they really want and need. Check out the divorce rate. Why is it so high ? I think by now you can make a good guess.

Do you cry at a sad ending to a movie or story? Do you cry at a happy ending ? That should show you that you have a lot of emotions. You have feelings that need to be shared with another person, a person that you are willing to open up to no matter what . Don’t settle on a person you can’t share this with or doe’s not care. If you do you will be in the divorce rate. You deserve better. Life is to short. Set goals for what you want in a relationship. You have a lot of love and passion to give and you deserve to have it in return.

There is a lot of relationship advice out there, some good some bad but they don’t deal with what people feel,or what their emotions are. Love and passion are feelings and emotions that are beyond words. Look into yourself and feel your emotions at times that you emotions come out. The good emotions are the ones you want to build on [ bet no one ever came up with that Idea]. If you have these emotions you have a love to give that is beyond words. And you are deserving of a relationship that will enhance your feelings and emotions. Not a lot of people have these. Consider yourself extremely gifted. It shows people what a wonderful and loving person you are.[ I bet you never looked at it that way]. Don’t get depressed about your emotions and feeling. You have something that other people have never and may never know. You have more to give than you may ever receive. you are the type of person that people secretly envy. Look at other people’s emotions in trying times. Do they have emotions similar to yours or do they have any emotions. Or maybe they just suppress them or they just don’t care. Do they really have love and passion in their lives or do they seem to just wander aimlessly. Just taking life as it comes. You may not feel it but your are one of the most beautiful people in the world. You deserve the love and passion in your life and I pray you find it.

Author Rick V